RLM Marriage Advocacy tools Training
This page contains all the tools , documents and training videos for how to help couples set their marriage on the rock of Christ -
As you get closer to a couple, problems will hopefully be exposed. The purpose of this material is to give you the courage and tools to address the most common moderate-level marriage issues.
Before downloading the tools below or watching individual videos, please watch the Intro Video
As you get closer to a couple, problems will hopefully be exposed. The purpose of this material is to give you the courage and tools to address the most common moderate-level marriage issues.
Before downloading the tools below or watching individual videos, please watch the Intro Video
Download the Marriage health curve. To be used in session 2, after a session dedicated to getting acquainted.
Give each spouse a copy to circle where they think they are at as a couple. Note their answers on your notes ( take a picture to keep with your phone if needed ) lightly discuss the results, and then send both marriage health curve papers home with the couple. It is very likely they will have a lively discussion at home!
Give each spouse a copy to circle where they think they are at as a couple. Note their answers on your notes ( take a picture to keep with your phone if needed ) lightly discuss the results, and then send both marriage health curve papers home with the couple. It is very likely they will have a lively discussion at home!
When you feel the advocacy relationship is going well, Download the Marriage difficulty survey.
Give each spouse a copy. Ask them to fill them out separately, not discuss their answers and return them to you.
Give each spouse a copy. Ask them to fill them out separately, not discuss their answers and return them to you.
Transcribe their Difficulty Survey answers onto the Planning Guide and add up the husband and wife’s scores for each category. Note the high total scores by category, and also categories when the husband and wife scores are dramatically different. This will help you determine the top 2 or 3 areas to focus on, which points you to a roadmap of interventions. Share your priority thoughts with the couple and discuss. And finally, give the two completed Difficulty Surveys back to the couple to take home and discuss.